Doctor Shares 5 Mind-Blowing Sleep Truths — #2 Is Why Women Need More Sleep Than Men

Not all health information is created equal. Some facts are well-known enough to have become cultural knowledge. Others — equally important — remain hidden in the folds of medical research, never reaching the people who need them most. A physician recently shared five such hidden sleep truths, and the one that’s getting the most attention is this: women need more sleep than men.
The physician pegs the difference at around 20 minutes per night. The explanation is rooted in the concept of cognitive load — the mental burden placed on the brain by complex, multi-threaded thinking throughout the day. Multitasking, which research suggests women engage in at higher rates, puts significant demand on the brain’s executive functions. Recovery from that demand happens during sleep, meaning more multitasking equals more sleep needed.
The first truth on the physician’s list is equally revealing: falling asleep should take 10 to 20 minutes. This range is the Goldilocks zone of sleep onset — tired enough to fall asleep with reasonable ease, but not so depleted that the body crashes immediately. Both extremes deserve attention, as they can indicate either significant sleep debt or difficulty with sleep initiation.
Dream memory — or the lack of it — is the third surprising truth. About 95 percent of dreams are forgotten within minutes of waking, simply because the brain doesn’t encode them into long-term memory during the sleep stages where dreams occur. This is entirely normal, but for those interested in their dream lives, a dedicated journal and the discipline to write before doing anything else can help preserve those fleeting memories.
The fourth and fifth truths carry important practical implications. Staying awake for 17 or more hours impairs cognitive performance comparably to a 0.05 blood alcohol level — meaningful enough to affect driving, decision-making, and workplace performance. And with melatonin, quality outperforms quantity: 0.5 mg mirrors the body’s own production and typically works better than the larger doses dominating the supplement market.